I'm the wife of a combat veteran and the mother of two adorable kids. My husband was injured in Iraq and has severe PTSD and a mild brain injury. This blog is a way to reflect as we fight PTSD through the good times and bad.
Sunday, April 15, 2012
Highs and lows - week in review
I've thought a lot about what exactly to blog about tonight.   This week has had some incredible news, both good and bad.  There's been highs and lows and I was thinking about which to focus on.  Then, I decided I could write a blog on it all because isn't that what life is?  A mish-mash of highs and lows?  So, here ya go:
The highs of course, dealt with Hubs.   He had a great week in his residential PTSD unit.   After discussing a particularly nasty trauma in group, the feedback from other veterans helped him to realize some things and he reached some peace with that trauma.  I was ecstatic.  He came home Friday night for the weekend.  I was a bit nervous because I wasn't sure how he'd be.  Turns out, we had a nice weekend together.   Friday night we went to a surprise birthday party for my soon-to-be brother-in-law.  Hubs generally hates parties and I wasn't too sure that he'd go.  He did end up going, however, and *gasp* had a decent time!  He was actually pleasant all weekend.  
The lows of the week were tragic.  Monday morning the sister of one of Hubs friends was killed by a drunk driver.  Then Tuesday night the brother of a high school classmate passed away from cancer.  Both of them left a spouse and young children.  My heart breaks for all of them and I can't stop thinking about the families and how while my family has experienced triumphs this week, others have experienced tragedy.   
Just a reminder to myself and anyone reading this, that you never know what someone is going through at a particular moment and we all just need to be kind to one another.
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